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It’s pretty common at least from a man’s perspective that women flake quite frequently on dates, day of as well, either not replying or coming up with an excuse.
I even used to have this rule where I always double booked dates because I was guaranteed (without fail) one of them would flake. It seems atleast 50% of the time, and this sentiment is largely shared amongst guys I know or discourse online.

While looking online tho, when this question has been asked, it’s always people talking about their experiences getting flaked on. I’m not interested in that. Where are all the flakers?? Statically you make a large portion of the population?? Why aren’t you speaking up? I find it hard to believe everyone is getting flaked on and no one is doing the flaking lol.

No judgement, I just wanna know some of the reasons why this happens, and they may be valid too.